Sunday, March 13, 2011

It is very sad for me to report that Ric will be moving into a hospice sometime this week.  Our homecare nurse said it is time...as Ric has very limited strength.  We have managed fairly well, within the past few days however;  there has been many challenges...his bladder or bowel are no longer funtioning properly.  We wanted to have to weekend together with family as I was not ready for the move prior.  I know Ric will be well taken of...as I will spend as much time as I am able to with him once this transition takes place.  This was very hard for me to tell the girls that there dad may never return home...I hear the staff and facilities are wonderful for families.

If anyone wants to send there coments or for me to pass any messages along to Ric...just write them in the blog...I will do my best to pass them along to him.  Telephone calls are appreciated...although Ric does not communicate much these days...he does listen.  Private emails are always welcome. 

12 Comments:

At 6:14 p.m., Anonymous Tara S said...

Ric & Tracy, this is sad news but I'm sure he'll be well taken care of and hopefully he can rest and be comfortable. I love you guys and pray for you every day.

 
At 6:28 p.m., Blogger Kristie said...

I'm so sorry, this is very sad news. You are all in my prayers and thoughts constantly. Please give Ric a hug for me.

 
At 9:49 p.m., Blogger Janet Craig said...

Hi Tracy and Ric,
This is very sad news and as you say the hardest part was explaining it to the girls. I hope that Kay is still with you that you are getting a lot of other support. Always near in our thoughts and prayers.
Love and hugs to all of you.
Janet Craig

 
At 9:54 p.m., Blogger Amber Kiddle said...

I'm so sorry to hear this news Tracy. :'(
The hospice will give Ric such great care and will make him comfortable. You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. I'm here to help if you need anything.

 
At 11:23 a.m., Anonymous Chris Giles said...

Hi Tracy,

I am so very sorry to hear this sad news. Words alone cannot possibly convey the tragedy of this. I'm sure Ric will be well taken care of and I suppose knowing that is some comfort. Please pass on both Melinda's and my best wishes and let him know that he, you and the girls are in our thoughts.

Chris

 
At 7:16 p.m., Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi Tracy,
I just wanted to pass along any encouragement and support I can. You are such a strong family. As I've read through your posts, I'm so humbled by the grace with which you've dealt with a seemingly impossible situation. As dorky as it is, it reminds me of a line from "the lord of the rings":
"what difficult times we face is not up to us to decide. All we have to do is decide what to do with the time that is given to us."
You have certainly done an amazing job of that! :)
kevin

 
At 6:32 p.m., Anonymous Anonymous said...

Tracy,
We are very sorry to hear about Ric. You are one strong lady and you have worked very hard at keeping things together. I only wish I could have been closer to help you out. Please let Ric know that we are with him in our thoughts and pray for him everyday. I ask the powers that be to give you the strength to keep going and help you all they can. You're amazing!!!
Tammy

 
At 7:34 p.m., Anonymous Anonymous said...

I love Thee, O LORD, my strength.
The LORD is my rock
and my fortress
and my deliverer,
My GOD, my rock, in whom I take refuge.
(PS 18:1-2)

 
At 8:29 p.m., Anonymous Anonymous said...

Tracy, my heart goes out to you and the girls. I know how hard it is to make a decision like this so you are in my thoughts and prayers daily. Give Ric a big hug for me and know that a big hug is going to you as well. I also pray for strength for you and the girls and I know, as hard as it may be to believe Him right now, He will guide you thru this.

Gail

 
At 8:40 p.m., Blogger Janet Craig said...

Just wanted to say hello and that we have been thinking of you...
I go to the blog everyday and read what others have written...Kevin said it all.
All we have to do is decide what to do with the time that is given to us."
You have certainly done an amazing job of that! :)
Hugs to the girls and strength to you Tracy.
Love Janet

 
At 11:11 a.m., Anonymous Anonymous said...

There are few words now, just tears. Having been lucky enough to count Ric as a friend for over 15 years, I can only hope he finds peace.


Chris S

 
At 1:28 p.m., Blogger Unknown said...

Hi Tracey, I'm so sorry to hear the news. Please pass on to Ric that I'll always remember the great times we had growing up as next door neighbors. Sounds like Ric is in very good hands. My thoughts are with you and the family.

Daneen

 

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